MGTOW Mentality Continues to Spread in 2019 – Can The Movement Be Stopped?

Updated 9/11/2019

2019 is bound to make us question reality.

As many of you who use social media may know, it can be a powerful tool when it comes to spreading information.  It has been bittersweet to see an astounding amount of growth not only in some of the information on this website (let’s be real – the MGTOW stuff) but also the growth of a lot media that I follow which are MGTOW focused.

I say bittersweet because the truth is that MGTOW only continues to grow because men are still being treated unfairly or just outright ignored.  I think its important to say that I’m not someone who considers himself a MGTOW although some of the knowledge I have gained from these men has been extremely valuable.  My issue with MGTOW is that it is a reaction to a problem and offers very little in terms of solutions.  However, it goes without saying that lots of MGTOW ideas are based around logic which a modern man can not ignore.

Why is MGTOW still growing?

People are generally logical and the principles of MGTOW are rooted in logic.  Although the classic definition of MGTOW can be very concrete I think its important to realize that these types of men come in different shades.  This means that each mans definition of MGTOW and what methods and how far he may go is different for each man.  Some men will carry the knowledge to use to their advantage and other men will cut out women from their lives all together.  Some men will continue to date women but many will never marry.    Each man will make their own choice based on the knowledge that is shared with them by MGTOW and “red pill” principles if they choose to receive it.

MGTOW mentality will continue to grow as long as feminism continues to spiral deeper out of control.  Modern feminism does not stop at equal rights but it demands equal representation even in cases where it is not necessary.  At times this representation comes at the cost of men especially considering that this representation is only demanded for the “good” jobs that society has to offer:  ‘We need more women in Hollywood, more female doctors, more female scientists’ but what about female sanitation workers, female loggers, female miners for example.  Modern feminists seem to only want the easy and high paying jobs, leaving the men to do the dirty, dangerous, and low paying work.  

In the last two years we have seen a giant rise in e-girls, online sex work, and female streamers who are often referred to as THOTs (that ho over there).  The term THOT gained popularity being used to refer to the plague of “titty streamers” that took over the IRL section of twitch.  These THOTS often sit in front of the camera wearing tight and revealing clothing and almost always offer nothing to their viewers in terms of talent or content beyond their good looks.  Essentially twitch has become and remained a softcore porn site for young men and boys.  Females are overwhelmingly successful with these practices but no one is calling for equal representation here.

Dating in 2019 is an absolute nightmare for men

    The dating scene in 2019 is a horrendous mess of misinformation, misrepresentation, and incredibly shallow values.  Not only is meeting people online a frustrating experience for everyone involved, but studies show that men are the ones who suffer the most in these interactions.  Men are not programmed to finding a mate this way, and dating and even hookup apps can be horrible for the self esteem and self confidence of the average male.  Men have also received very mixed signals from society and media itself.  Consider Brie Larson, who stated that she felt like she needed to live life on the “defense” because she smiled at a man who proceeded to approach her and ask her for her phone number, and the recent razor commercial showing that approaching a female and talking to her in person is considered “Toxic Masculinity”.  These inconsistent messages are ruining it for women who want to be approached by confident men and the men who are bad at online communication but good at interpersonal communications, skills which helped build our very society, skills that actually matter.

Ironically it is the modern women who should be the most angry with modern feminism.  Men can choose to walk away from this toxic state of society but women are now forced to work the same soul-draining jobs as men and studies prove that the modern women is more stressed, unhappy and less fulfilled than ever.  Who would have thought?  Society has convinced the modern women that raising a child is no longer the most important job of all and women who do have the stay-at-home-mom life are often berated and bullied by other women.  What modern feminists do not understand is that there will always be a patriarchy.  Someone will always be in charge of making decisions for you besides you.  This can be your mom, dad, siblings or even your boss at work.  Modern feminism is replacing  the patriarchy of fathers with that of the government and everyone is suffering. By having more women ignoring their biology and biological history, the end result seems to be more tax revenue for the government, a broken family unit, and a smaller and more easily controlled population.

Way more than a boy’s club?

People who have insisted that the MGTOW movement is just a temporary crybaby boy’s club are ending up with their feet in their mouths.  I have recently seen a surge in articles with complaints about the spread of this logical mentality.  The complainers are for the most part modern feminists. Recent reports indicate that boys as young as elementary school age are sharing “red pill” principles, and youtube videos to their peers.  And you thought Fortnite was bad!

Can MGTOW be stopped?

No.  In my opinion this is only the beginning and things will get far worse in respect to the culture of heterosexual relationships in the west.  Many argue that this is partly due to a hidden agenda of depopulating the western world to make things easier for elites and at this point there actually does seem to be mounting evidence for these conspiracy theories.  A more palatable deduction is that as modern feminism continues to fester with toxic ideas, more and more men will continue to walk away.  We need to look at the mental health of men and treat them as valuable if we want to begin to understand the root of the problems in today’s society.  We need to figure out why men get more gender reassignment surgery than women, and why women are more miserable than ever before.  I think that like most answers in life, the truth is hidden in plain sight.

The solution involves meeting the in middle and treating each other with respect and understanding once more.  Unplug from communities and social media that tells you that “he” or “she” the enemy every now and then.  Social media has been proven to cause problems in relationships, and another well known fact that is always forgotten is that what you constantly see does have a very real and powerful affect on you as a person.  This of course is important when we are talking about written language and video commentary but don’t forget that subliminal messages are hidden quite literally everywhere.  Men and women both need to start embracing family values, staying together, and actually raising their own children.  Cheating and betraying your relationship partner needs to NOT be normalized and women and men should both celebrate and practice a bit of modesty.  Remember that when it comes to your own mental health a little self-respect goes a long way.

Stay safe out there, you’ll need it. 

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8 thoughts on “MGTOW Mentality Continues to Spread in 2019 – Can The Movement Be Stopped?

  1. From a MGTOW monk (have been since before the term was coined) firstly it is not a movement it is a lifestyle choice.
    Secondly we have never claimed to or wanted to offer solutions; there is no solution to the “air conditioning is sexist”, “holding a door open is oppressing women” mentality of females. One of the latest and most insane thiings ever to come from the mouths of feminists, any word with man in it is inherently sexist and should be banned and replaced, examples; deMANd, adaMANt, MANufacure, etc etc, you may scoff but this kind of remedial tripe gets air time on kow towed MSM and thousands of pages in the print media. We have to listen to this kind of nonsense (being treated seriously) everyday and everyday it gets worse, and this is quite apart from a biased legal system and the utter bullshit that discrimination (provided it discriminates in favour of females) is somehow a good thing, ALL discrimination is bad period.
    Thirdly, We do not hate females, we simply do not need or want females in our life in any way shape or form.
    What I will never understand is why all men are not now MGTOW. We simply want females to just leave us alone, what is so bad about that? Females can build their wonderful feminist utopia, who cares, just don’t expect men to be coerced to join it.
    2019 we will begin to raise the profile of gender segregation. Parallel soceities where never the twain shall meet. Females can then have 100% female fire crews, contruction sites, and what ever the hell else they will need to build and maintain their feminist (male free or subjugated) utopia. Let us men have our own society free from females. There is no longer even a biological need to meet a female (self-control is a beautiful thing), advances in IVF etc means male/female interaction is no longer needed.
    I will no longer be blamed for rape, oppresion, sexual assualts and god know what else just because I am a man. I have never done any of these things to women unless your a feminist then the very fact I am a man means I am an evil sexual predator desperate to oppress women. NO. I want them to be completely free male influences and not ask men for a single thing or help. They are strong, powerful women let them do it themselves and leave emn the hell alone to live our lives free from their tyranny.

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  2. The MGTOW lifestyle works for me
    Lots of cash , new Porsche every 4 years.
    Retired…..things are great.
    What’s the downside ? For men there’s no downside.

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  3. Well, written.
    You did a very good job of explaining the realities of MGTOW and how it has a real argument against women and society and the way gender inequalities are not problems facing women, the inequalities are against men. The gender biases are everywhere you look and in every magazine, television show, commercials, in our schools starting at preschool and continuing through grad school. The blatant disregard of males as humans and treat them as if they are only here to provide labor, pay taxes, financially support women and to give their lives to ensure the survival of the state and of women. That is what MGTOW is against.
    As the author wrote, there are many different attitudes of men who claim to be MGTOW and “red pilled” . Those attitudes depend on the circumstances that brought each man to MGTOW in the first place.
    I’m not going to preach or try to describe in depth what is right or wrong with the men and women these days because it really comes down to this, in my opinion women have always known that they manipulate and use men for their own personal gain in status, financial, and in the family. They know they have had actual equality since the early 1970s and everything they claim to be as inequalities are power grabs and ways to earn money as a non profit taking advantage of the political, judiciary and societal systems to benefit beyond equality over men. Men have been in charge of growth, improvements, creating, building, safety, protection, and control of these systems of civilization. Only men could do what was needed and still need to be in charge of those things. Women could never accomplish what men do. Never will they be able to. That’s not a bash against women and their abilities to accomplish some things, it is merely a fact of biology and the way the human brain works differently for men and women. Women know this but continue to try and use their only real means of gaining any ground and that is through manipulation, deceit and using men and taking men’s resources and leaving men mentally broken and disfunctional. Women want to strip power from men any way they can to give women an advantage which they already have.

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  4. Well written! I cannot imagine that women are happy reading all this. But then, that’s not our problem. And more men are now joining the “nothim” movement by avoiding women at work, which is in some way,detrimental to women’s advances in career, again, not our problem. Any mistake avoided is a victory and regarding women, men ave taken notice.

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  5. mgtow is attacked because they say things bluntly and unapologettically. they are dangerous because they dont want anyting. they could use a pr club. society has changed in last hundred years that had been the societ of the last hundred thousand. women have gained vote, reproductive rights, education of jobs. of course things will occur like feminism and mgtow. one thing is it is assumed because mgtow doesnt have sex it is because they cant get sex. for me, i am mgtow usa because i live close to mexico. i am lawyer and friends are great professional guys and arent missing much because women are just so unpleasant to date. date with usa woman something like this, discuss hot button issues like politics and abortion at dinner. why do we have to classify this as a date. are my big muscles supposed to impress her or scare. does my expensive sports car make me feel powerful.. saying plus size women arent as attractive is the slavery of the patriarchy. how can i live with myself being hetero, white and male, sports, exercise and weight lifting is out of date and it is a waste of time and childish, grow up its 2019, you have to prove i am worthy, big quiz show, hoop after hoop, chance of false sex crime always possible, stds always possible, pregnancy possible, i am wealthy 56 yr old lawyer with good qualities. when younger had to at least try to get women, now hit on constantly, 1000 hits on match, women get worthless degree, borrow fortune, be corp drone for years, friends getting married, children thirties, marry man you wouldnt have dated before, divorce. diet, yoga, social dating, clubbing, few good men because most have no college and bad job, women drink bottle of wine a night, anti depressives, of course damaged, she was told by feminists you can have it all, you go girl, should get married and have family if ever wont early to mid twenties and have career later, it will wait, in clubs and on line men go for younger women exactly like older women did when they were young. you can say not every woman, i am lawyer doing divorces for decades, yes it is. women like this smart, educated, great job, attractive, womens needs different than mens, dating younger women dangerpus and insulting, older women are broken, and yes they are. you tube full of channels, why am i single, where have all the men gone, what happened to chivalry. the men are hiding and women are just not worth it. i date women in mexico like all my friends. dating predators having field day, treat women badly, still hoping will be chosen like high school girls at dance. what does anyone think men would do. women drank feminist kool aid. finally got what wanted. hope it was worth it because you will be alone for rest of life. natural in aging for men, terrifying for women. they become broken.

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